Showing posts with label learn. Show all posts
Showing posts with label learn. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Things I've Learned from Courtney & Nick

My sister is getting married this weekend!  I am so excited for her and her new life with Nick, who is such a great guy for her.



They've definitely had their plates full for the last year, with Nick being deployed with the Air Force, both of them moving to Oklahoma, as well as planning the wedding and all of the things that go along with it. I'm not sure how they've managed to get everything done in such a short time, especially with my sister starting a brand new job down in OKC, but they've managed to get everything together and seem to be handling the stress a little better than some couples do.

 They've been up in Connecticut for the past few days and on Monday I got to spend the day with them putting together some of the final details for their special day.
This man was a great help in finding THE shoes!


Things I've Learned From Courtney & Nick

  • Life is a great balancing act, and when you can't get what you want you  can always learn to accept someone else's way.
  • Value the people who value their own happiness.  They're the ones who give the best advice.
  • If it's meant to be, it will be, and it's well worth the wait.
  • Things don't always go as planned, but things will always work out for the best in the end.
  • Love can deal with distance, especially if you're the adventurous type and can close the gap one day.
  • Taking a risk can be the only thing between you and the life you want. The worst that can happen is getting turned down, in which case you move on.
Congratulations Nick and Courtney!  I'm so insanely happy for the both of you and I wish you all the luck in the world, although I know you won't need it.  I'm so excited for the wedding Saturday!  Love you both!

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Things I've Learned From Living On My Own

I've been trying to move out of my parents' house since I was 18 years old.  Not that I don't love my parents, I do, I just always felt like I was stuck there and relying on them, which I didn't want to do for forever.  I can honestly say, I'm glad I stayed with my parents as long as I did.  Being an adult is hard, and if you don't think so, you are probably not doing it right.  Or you're way more self-motivated than I am.

Things I've Learned From Living On My Own:


  • Speaking of self-motivation, this is something you need to be really good at.  And if you aren't good at it, you better learn to be good at it, and quickly, otherwise nothing gets done.
  • Getting things done is hard.  And expensive.
  • There is a lot more cleaning involved than you will ever be okay with doing.  Always.
  • You can eat whatever you want, whenever you want.  That isn't as great as it sounds (especially after you realize you gained 8 pounds in 2 months).
  • Family suddenly feels closer once you get farther away.  When I lived at home, I could go a week without seeing a member of my family.  Now that I live an hour away from them, I hear from most of them almost every other day.
  • I have too much stuff.  I need to get rid of it because it's still sitting in boxes three months later...
I need to have a yard sale... And a good work out routine.

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Things I've Learned from Working in a Daycare


  • Learn to be resilient. Don't expect to have a perfect day, expect things to go wrong, and learn how to deal with it when it happens.
  • Little kids are some of the most confusing people on the planet. They can be sobbing and then realize what a beautiful day it is and want to run outside within 0.001 seconds.
  • Schedules are important to avoid meltdowns on normal days.
  • Kids are tough. No, really. I've seen some surprisingly quick comebacks from some brutal take downs. They're also brutally honest.

  • This is probably the only job I will have had that it was completely acceptable to be barefoot.

  • Sometimes, the people you work with will drive you completely insane, but other times they become your strongest support system and the people you enjoy seeing every day .

As I walk out of work on Friday afternoon, I honestly don't now how it's going to work out. I'm sure it will either hit me all at once before I even leave, or it will take me the better part of the next week to realize it.

Over the past two years that I've been a staff member here, I've learned more than I had ever cared to know about wrangling 50 kids between first and third grade, remembered how terrifying and rewarding it is to graduate from preschool and think about starting at the 'big kid school', and at only 21 years old, how bittersweet it is to be on the other end of the spectrum and put my whole preschool class onto the bus for their first day of kindergarten.

It's been an emotional ride for me, hopping from class to class and getting to know the array of teachers, each one of the kids, and most of the parents. I'm surprised to find myself going through the list of things that I'm genuinely going to miss about this job that I never thought I would, like “Bear Hunt” and never seeming to have enough of one thing or another (which was usually when I thought of it at the last second).

Then again I'm less surprised by the things everyone misses when they leave or when the children simply get older and move on, such as the post-nap cuddling, playing Capture the Flag between School Age and TASC, and all the times we found kids and teachers alike laying on the tile floors during the summer because it was just simply too hot to move. Not to mention the little girl that started calling me 'Merica... That's almost too cute to handle.

I can honestly say that this has been the most unique and possibly the most demanding job I've held. Between making baked apples in the microwave with Preschool 1, helping my Preschool 2 class prepare for kindergarten, help the Toddlers figure out how to put on their coats all by themselves and teaching the School Age Kids a few new games, (all while working alongside my older sister, my younger brother, and my mother), I couldn't have asked for a harder, more frustrating, yet rewarding and fun task along with the endless blown kisses and body slams from the kids themselves.

So as I leave, I want to thank everyone for their patience, love, and support over the years (as well as constructive criticism) and for helping me learn as much from you and the children as I hope I taught them in the time I've had with them.

I know it's only been a little more than two years, but you kind of get attached to jobs like this.  I'll definitely be making visits back to see everyone.